Comments on: On The Question Of Soul Mates http://mjpaxton.com/2010/06/28/on-the-question-of-soul-mates/ Future Librarian. Writer. Geek. Mon, 16 May 2011 16:38:51 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Katie http://mjpaxton.com/2010/06/28/on-the-question-of-soul-mates/comment-page-1/#comment-912 Katie Tue, 29 Jun 2010 12:30:58 +0000 http://mjpaxton.com/?p=230#comment-912 I actually read a book once that suggested you think through the relationship all the way through the end when you start having the "what if" feelings. I believe the thought process of the author was that then you'd be more prepared if things didn't work out and wouldn't wallow, because you'd be prepared. Or perhaps it was suggested to plan a "break up day" of sorts, but if things were going well continue the relationship. I'd have to read it again though, I read that book in High School. Anyway, I agreed with it, better prepared than completely crushed, because you're right - most dating relationships don't last. But chin, up, friend! I know you'll make it work with the right person. You're awesome like that. Hope everything is going at least "OK" if not better. Let me know if you need anything! I actually read a book once that suggested you think through the relationship all the way through the end when you start having the “what if” feelings. I believe the thought process of the author was that then you’d be more prepared if things didn’t work out and wouldn’t wallow, because you’d be prepared. Or perhaps it was suggested to plan a “break up day” of sorts, but if things were going well continue the relationship. I’d have to read it again though, I read that book in High School. Anyway, I agreed with it, better prepared than completely crushed, because you’re right – most dating relationships don’t last. But chin, up, friend! I know you’ll make it work with the right person. You’re awesome like that.

Hope everything is going at least “OK” if not better. Let me know if you need anything!

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